13.1 and 125… Here I Come

Before I began the journey to Africa to bring our boy home, I weighed 124 pounds and was the smallest and most fit I had been in my adult life (or whole life, probably). Africa brought ten pounds, the settling period afterward five more, and then pregnancy twenty eight-ish more… Since the baby came I have had the hardest time getting it all off again. I exercise and eat very well, and after Presley was born a good diet and exercise took off a total of 55 pounds including preggo weight.

This time around it seems to be a little stuck…

Before I got pregnant with Elikai I was training for a half marathon but I wasn’t really far along enough in the training to safely continue through pregnancy, so my doctor advised I hold off and just run recreationally in my exercise program. When the Saints won their game a few weeks back by 55 points, the Rock N Roll half marathon was discounted by $55 and I just couldn’t pass up that deal so I signed up! I’ll be doing my first 13.1 mile race on March 4 in NOLA and I am stoked!

Training for the race has forced me into the gym four days per week instead of three, so I am hoping it pays off on the scale, too. It’s my goal to be back down to 125 pounds when I hit my 13.1 in March! I have been taking pictures of myself at the gym the last few months so I could see my progress when I felt like a chub. Now I can show myself that what I am doing is making a difference… just slow and steady! (Though I totally wish I had taken all my pictures in that bright pink top because wow, it’s super flattering! :) )

So, in obligatory-weight-loss-blog-post fashion, here are the pictures of my progress:

Side view: August 18 (top left), September 19 (top right), October 24 (bottom left) and November 15 (bottom right)

Front view: August 18 (top left), September 19 (top right), October 24 (bottom left) and November 15 (bottom right)

Now keep me accountable!! I am finally starting to feel like myself again, and I am bound and determined to hit my goals! If you know me at all, you know I am stubborn and when I set my mind on something I do it. So here it is….

13.1 and 125… Here I Come!!!

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Life is short. Life is hard. Love harder.

It seems like more and more people I know are battling death and disease. Their loved ones are left fighting for them, praying, believing for the best.

It could be us. It could be any one of us. It’s my worst nightmare, but one so many people experience and deal with on a daily basis- something happening to a spouse or a child.

It’s true… Life is a vapor. I remember hearing an awesome word at a funeral once about what you do with your “dash”, the time in between when you are born and when you die.

I pray that I’ve made a mark on the world somehow, but most of all I hope those I loved know how much I loved them. I pray that the dumb little fights are squashed sooner than later, petty things are forgotten, big trespasses are forgiven.

Life is short.

Life is hard.

Love harder.

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Field Trip to the Pumpkin Patch

So, there’s a church with a pretty good size pumpkin patch right down the street from us that would have been fine for taking pictures. BUT then there’s a farm about 40 minutes away with way more fun stuff to do, so we drove out there today with the whole fam… And so did about 2,000 other people. Literally. You would have NEVER known there was an LSU day game today- it was CRAZY!

But we walked around, picked out pumpkins, took pictures, played in the hay, pet some animals and had a picnic, and it was a fun little family day. (Until Presley accidentally threw a big jug of water on her baby brother’s head… that wasn’t so fun for anyone.)

And it made for some cute pictures, though Elikai slept on me most of the time so he didn’t make it into many shots… Anyway, enjoy :)

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Pictures Make a House a Home

I feel like a house can be decorated in any style, have whatever furniture and decor in it, but without family photos it never is quite a “home.” My style is not showroom- it’s lived in, comfy, a vintage and modern blend… but most importantly my house has to has tons of pictures. I don’t like a lot of knick knacks and I hate clutter- but I am obsessed with plastering beautiful pictures of the ones I love most everywhere I look.

So a few months ago when I found easycanvasprints.com, I got way excited! There are tons of websites that offer canvases, but this website constantly sends me awesome promotions and their prints are beautiful! I got two 16×20 canvases of the kids for dirt cheap, as well as an 8×10 for my mom for her birthday. I got to determine the layout of each photo, how large a wraparound I wanted, if I wanted black and white or color, and several other details that made them exactly right for me… and I am so pleased with how they came out! The colors are vibrant, the images are clear, and every inch of them is perfection :) (Though my little camera does them no justice!)

Now the wall of pictures in my living room has been totally revamped and improved… And my home is even homier… I just love looking up and seeing mementos of so many glorious memories of the Matt5. We are blessed!

(I liked this company so much I even put a link to them in my side bar. Feel free to click there or on the link in this post and check them out!!)

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Putting It Into Perspective

Many people know October as Breast Cancer Awareness month. And what an important cause that is… So many of us know women affected by this disease.

But many people don’t realize (myself included until a couple days ago) that this is also Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. I feel so incredibly blessed that I have never had to endure the pain of a miscarriage or infant death, though throughout both of my pregnancies I have been very fearful of both of those situations. It’s a mother’s worst nightmare.

Today I came across this article through a Facebook friend’s page, and it broke me down. This morning I woke up complaining about lack of sleep. And after reading this I remembered the thousands and thousands of women who would die for one night with their baby.

It’s worth the read, but get out the Kleenex…

Did you know that October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month? I’ll bet not. Despite the infant mortality crisis that’s been at the forefront of Milwaukee’s public health news for months, the only people who have more than a cursory comprehension of what it means to lose a baby are those who’ve lived it.

Infant loss is nature’s cruelest practical joke. It’s investing all of the required time and effort into pregnancy, only to be robbed of the result. It’s cradling a body that grew within your own and trying to reconcile the cold, lifeless form in your arms with your memory of the baby who turned double flips in your womb.

It’s worrying that you’ll forget what your child looked like and snapping an album’s worth of photos that no one will ever ask to see. It’s sobbing so hard you can’t breathe and wondering if it’s possible to cry yourself to death.

Infant loss is handing off a Moses basket to the nurse who’s drawn the unfortunate duty of delivering your pride and joy to the morgue and walking out of a hospital with empty arms.

It’s boxing up brand new baby clothes and buying a 24-inch casket. It’s sifting through sympathy cards, willing your foolish body to stop lactating, clutching your baby’s blanket to your chest in hopes of soothing the piercing ache in your heart.

It’s resisting the urge to smack the clueless individuals who compare your situation to the death of their dog or who tell you you’ll have another baby, as if children are somehow replaceable.

Infant loss is explaining to your 7-year-old that sometimes babies die and being stumped into silence when she asks you why. It’s watching other families live out your happy ending and fighting a fresh round of grief with every milestone you miss.

It’s being shut out of play groups for perpetuity. It’s skipping social events with expectant and newly minted mothers because, as a walking worst-case scenario, you don’t want to put a damper on the party.

It’s listening to other women gripe about motherhood and realizing that you no longer relate to their petty parental complaints because, frankly, when you’ve buried a baby, a sleepless night with a vomiting toddler sounds something like a gift.

Infant loss is pruning from your life the friends and relatives who ignore or minimize your loss. It’s recognizing that, while they may not mean to be hurtful, the fact that they don’t know any better doesn’t make their utter lack of empathy one whit easier to bear.

My baby girl would have been 5 years old this month. I don’t know what she’d look like, what her favorite food would be. I’ve never had the privilege of tucking her into bed, taking her to the zoo or kissing her boo-boos. I will never watch her graduate or walk down the aisle.

Infant loss is more than an empty cradle. It’s a life sentence.

So this afternoon I cuddled my sweet bebe a little longer before putting him down for a nap… I smelled his sweet scent… I cried as I thanked God for him.  I thank the Lord for all three of my beautiful gifts, and remember those who don’t have the opportunity to spend sleepless nights rocking their babies.

Perspective.

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Beauty From Ashes

One of my very favorite verses from the Bible is Isaiah 61:3:

To all who mourn in Israel, he will give a crown of beauty for ashes, a joyous blessing instead of mourning, festive praise instead of despair. In their righteousness, they will be like great oaks that the LORD has planted for his own glory.”

I prayed and believed that scripture over our kids at the Dream Center during the years we served there. I believe it for all people who come from terrible circumstances. I believe God does use our pain for His purpose.

And I also believe that it is our responsibility- and honor- to help those less fortunate than ourselves… Heck, we should help people more fortunate, too, but that’s for another day… Anyway, many of you will remember my beautiful friend, Jade, who I spent many weeks with in Africa. She is a dear, precious soul with a heart that breaks for the hurting. She is leading a team of ladies to Uganda next year and has come up with the most fantastic way to raise funds for that trip.

While there supporting a friend through her adoption, she visited a home that rehabilitates former child prostitutes. They were selling paper bead necklaces and needed the funds desperately for their basic living needs. Jade came along just in time, helped them meet their financial need, and now she is able to sell them here in the States to help raise money for her trip back. And what’s even cooler? Her team will be going back to this same home in March and ministering to the women. This jewelry is DOUBLE blessing for these rescued girls!

So go to Jade’s blog, read about these amazing ladies, and scoop up some Christmas presents (and some for yourself of course). These are very unique pieces, unlike anything I saw in the three months I was there. You will fall in love!

This is the one I got… Fabulous or WHAT?!

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New Lois & Louise Promotion!

In my last post I told you guys about my new little venture into the world of at-home-business. Today we are kicking off a brand spankin’ new promotion that I hope you will take advantage of.

If you refer any customer who makes a purchase of over $20 from us, you will get one item 20% off! That’s huge!
And remember, if you are local you are always eligible for free delivery!!

So get your little booties over to http://www.etsy.com/shop/loisandlouiseand check out the merchandise! Scoop up an awesome fall or Christmas wreath, painting for your kids’ room, or another one of our handmade pieces. We are adding new items constantly and custom creations are always available!

To order locally, email shoploisandlouise@gmail.com so you won’t get charged shipping on etsy.

Here are a couple of our most recent pieces. Happy shopping:


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My New Baby

No, not that kind of baby…

I have started a little Etsy shop… I’ve talked about it for a long time, so I finally went for it. Long term it will be home decor and paintings, and right now there are lots of holiday items with more are being added every day.

Check it out here. You can read all about how my business got its name and see everything we are currently selling! And check back frequently- I am listing about one new project per day.

Here are some of my faves:

Hoping the creativity flows so I can get some fun, unique ideas and some items sold! What are some things you are always looking for and can’t seem to find?

And check out the special discounts on those ornaments! They make great office presents for Christmas :)

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At this moment…

As I type this my baby is cuddled up on my chest, strapped to my body in a mei tei carrier. His little head sits right below my chin and I am drinking in his intoxicating baby scent as I listen to his little sleeping squeaks and snores. He is such an incredible baby and we could not love him more.

My sweet princess is in the next room talking to her baby dolls and feeding them “breast milk” (she’s become quite the little mama lately). Earlier we all did the hokey pokey in the kitchen as I fixed a yummy snack. Later she will go to dance class, one of her (and my) favorite parts of the week.

Our precious Moses is at school learning and growing more every day. He is starting to use more words, become more verbal, and is beginning to show us a little personality. He even rides the bus home now, and runs through our front door so excited about everything the day held.

Chris has been an amazing father and husband, working two jobs and still being a completely hands-on, helping partner every second he is home. Plus he tells me I’m beautiful 10x a day, so who wouldn’t love that?!

Through all the worries and stresses of life, I could not feel more blessed. There have been adjustments and challenges for all of us but we are a stronger family unit than ever before.

“For He who promised is faithful.” Amen.

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Ready or Not…

The above picture in hanging on a bulletin board in Presley’s classroom… At her pre-school… My baby girl is going to school!

Ok, she’s only going 2 days a week for 4 hours a day, but it counts. This will be the first time she’s ever been away from me for this long on a regular basis, and it means my baby is growing up.

But goodness gracious, she is so excited! She has several friends from church in her class, but I’m sure by the end of day 1 she will have made 5 more buddies and know everything about them. I cannot even believe how social she is sometimes… It blows me away. I always remember being shy and scared to talk to new people. As I got older that turned into people thinking I was a snob, but really it was insecurity.

But Pres, gosh she is confident, and it’s my deepest prayer that she stays secure in who He created her to be. That as she gets older and the pressures and ideals of the world weigh down on her, that she stands tall and remains full of mercy, grace and love.

So next Wednesday-whether I am ready or not- Presley will begin her school days. She is going to do amazing… The first day of dance class she marched in, introduced herself to the teacher, approached a couple little girls and commented on their shoes, and in less than 30 seconds was completely independent of me. Now she walks into dance class and never looks back… And preschool will be the same. She will love it and they will love her.

And I will love her even more with each minute she’s gone, and I will likely count down the seconds until I pick her up.

Ok, I’m ready… I think.

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Elikai Meets His Family!

Natalie stuck around after the birth to capture the first moments between Elikai and his brother and sister, as well as his grandparents and aunt Lauren. Get ready for the sweetness!

(Moses was scared because he was in a hospital and has had very traumatic experiences before with medical stuff… So Chris was comforting him and explaining what was going on. Awesome Daddy :) )

Is he an angel or what?

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Our Perfect Day Captured in Film

One thing God has blessed our family with is great friends who are also amazing photographers. I invited one of my best girls, Natalie Landry (of Landry Photography), to be in the labor and delivery room with us to capture the most special moments of our experience bringing Elikai into the world. She did such a beautiful job and gave us almost 200 images that we LOVE! Here are some of our favorites…

Tomorrow I will post some of Moses, Presley and the rest of the family meeting Baby E for the first time… There are some very special images in that bunch, too. Get ready :)

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Elikai is Here!

Our beautiful, sweet baby boy Elikai was born on Monday morning at 9:05am, weighing in at 7 pounds 9 ounces and was 21 3/4 inches long… He was a few days “late” but right on time. :) After what we thought was a false alarm trip to the hospital Sunday afternoon, we went to some friends’ wedding to try and get labor going. Apparently all that Footloose dancing worked, because by the time we left I knew it was time to go back to the hospital!

Labor is a long story, but the end result is that I pushed for an hour and had a very successful VBAC, which was my greatest dream for this experience. God is so good to give us the desires of our heart! My doctor is absolutely incredible and I couldn’t have been happier with him after all was said and done. He was so supportive and kind and wonderful and I am so grateful for him. And my hubby was the most amazing birth coach ever and was there for me every step of the way. God reminds me so often how blessed I am to have Chris and what an amazing partner he is.  And getting to see him with a teeny tiny baby again pretty much melts my heart :)

And now, meet our boy…

(Click on the pictures to make them bigger)

 

Coming soon will be the pictures taken in the delivery room by my great friend and photographer Natalie Landry… I can’t wait!

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For the Love of Dance & My Big Girl

For most of my childhood, I believed I would end up a professional dancer. Dance was the only place I felt really, truly free. I loved it as much as any human could possibly love any activity. But at age 13, it got competitive and caddy, and I got bored so I switched to cheerleading. My grandmother died and dance was kind of “our thing,” and I just wanted to try something else. Quitting dance one of very few regrets I have in my life. I’ve taken some classes as an adult, but I could never reclaim those glory days.

So of course, when I offered dance lessons to Presley and she got super excited, I got super excited! I would never force any sport, activity, subject on my child but if she ends up loving it I will definitely be thrilled. And if not, we will find something else she loves.

But today we went to get all basics- leotards, pink tights, tap shoes, tap ties, ballet shoes, a dance bag, and a bow … And inside the store I almost lost it. She was SO excited to try it all on and twirl and tap her toes. It sounds crazy I’m sure, but it felt like time stood still and I was looking at a little me. A flood of emotions came over me- and these hormones weren’t helping either.

For the rest of the morning she begged to try everything on again, so I told her after her nap we would have a big fashion show. Of course that meant she took a very short nap because she was way.too.excited, but seeing her in the whole outfit, running to pose so I could take her picture..

Oh, my heart.

(And those tap shoes didn’t come off for three hours, and it took bribery.)

She will start dance classes in about four weeks, and shortly after that she will start preschool. And the world of Presley being my tiny baby girl will end… She is about to be a big sister, and every day she’s becoming more of a “big girl.” No more pacifier at sleeping time, praying over people’s needs without me even telling her to, doing so many things on her own…

How do I even deal with this? It’s just going by way too fast.

 

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A Resurgence of My Artsy Side

I always loved art classes growing up, and the idea of painting and creating art has always enticed me. But to be honest, I just kinda thought I would be bad at it. In high school and college I shifted my creative focus to writing which I felt much more secure in.

In working on Elikai’s room, I decided to paint/distress the hodge podge of furniture we had to make it better coordinate. Though it took a long time to get the look exactly perfect, I LOVE how it turned out.

Here’s my favorite piece… It has very sentimental value because it was in my room for most of my childhood.

I found some really cute little prints on Etsy that I am kind of obsessed with to add some non-generic flair to the room…

…And then the other day I had this “wild hair” to paint a big piece of art to go behind his crib that would be super bold, a la David Bromstad from HGTV (who we love). So, being the determined (and OCD) person that I am, I went out the next day and borrowed and bought all the materials I would need and got to work.

So, in a day I went from this

to this

to this…

And now it hangs here, and looks fabulous with the bold owl crib sheet and teal and orange bed skirt.

Not bad for my first ever painting project- well, at least of my adult life.

Hoping this artsy side sticks around for a while :)

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